Wednesday, January 16, 2013

Subconscious Jealousy

I don't know about any of you, but when my friends get into new relationships or break up I want to reconnect with past lovers. Seeing a new relationship makes one want to be in one as well. It's our subconscious jealousy. You may not know that you're jealous, but you know that you want the same thing for yourself. Happiness is the ultimate goal for us. When we see a reason to become happier, we strike. Never let an opportunity slip away when it comes around.
Even when they fight, for some absurd reason, we want to be able to do the same with the one we care for. We want to feel angst and pain with someone and that doesn't show until we see others doing the same. Or am I just extremely weird?
The attention that another friend gets when we don't, is something we long for. You may not admit it, but I'll be the first to tell you I'm jealous when a friend is getting attention while I'm not.
We all just want to be loved.
"Love is a fan club with only two fans." Gore Vidal

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